If you are under the age of 18 or if you are easily offended, read no more. You have been warned!
This week my wife and I went to an appointment with a Urologist. I am strongly considering getting a vasectomy. No, that is not a surgery to remove a vase that you accidentally ate, but is a “long term form of birth control.” Why did Rebecca go with me? Did I need the emotional support? No. It is require by law in Mississippi that a man’s spouse, if he is married, accompany him to watch a video and to give her consent prior to undergoing the procedure. More on the video later.
First, if you ever have to go to the urologist for any reason, don’t pee before you get there. No matter why you are there, they will make you give a urine sample. One guy came out of the bathroom with his little cup full and told the nurse, “Hey, I am only here to pay my bill.”
The urologist came in looking just like Michael Gross, the TV dad from Family Ties. He was a little socially awkward, which isn’t terribly surprising considering the man dedicated his entire professional life to the study of urine, and urinary tracts.
The video was awesome. It was made in the 1970’s and featured Dr. Mohammed Bulbul. Below is a similar video so you get the idea.
Some of my favorite quotes from the video:
“After the procedure, you are going to need to avoid vigorous activities such as horseback riding, mechanical bulls, mountain biking, kickboxing, etcetera.” – Dr. Bulbul.
“After the procedure, I had some discomfort, not unlike if someone were pinching one of your testicles.” –the patient
“Tell me when I can open my eyes again” – Rebecca, while shielding her face from the segment where they show the doctor cutting the vas deferens, the small tube that connects the testicle to the seminal vesicle.
After the video and talking with the good doctor, I started to feel a little self-conscious, maybe a bit different, a bit eccentric. I have four kids already. The patient in the video said, “well, we had two kids already and that’s all we wanted, so the time was right to get sterilized.” The Doctor told us that just about everyone who comes in has two kids. According to him, once a couple has a boy and a girl, its a done deal. Wow.
I am not sure I am comfortable with the word “sterile,” either. It sounds harsh. Final.
I asked my boss if it would be ok if I took four days of for “an elective out-patient surgery.” He probably thinks I am going to get breast augmentation or something.
I have a tentative date set for the procedure. Time to buy some ice packs and rent some movies. I hear that it is popular for guys to get the procedure done around March Madness, so they can sit at home and watch the college basketball playoffs with an ice pack under their scrotum. Good times.